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The Avatar Of Your Ego by guest blogger Sonic Yogi

As soon as we begin to attach to an Identity we begin to build an Ego. This process begins around age 7 and continues throughout life.

What's an Ego? The ego is an avatar that we have created. It seems worthy of love from others. An avatar is also something to be defended from others. So, ironically, ego keeps the connection to others from fully occurring.

We begin to build the "Shadow", or the part of of identity that is hiding from our consciousness.

The ego fears being discovered because it conflicts with the current identity or sense of self. This shadow is partly conscious, but mostly subconscious.

Much of the ego is ingrained into society at a suconsious level. When we are children, we are asked, "what do you want to be when you grow up?" As if what we are isn't enough. We have to choose from a list of activities that will someday define us. It's not the activity that's the problem, it's our need to define ourselves and our need to define others.

Why is this all so insane? Because no one, not one soul on the planet, chose to be most of these things that define our ego. None of us chose to be White, Black, Yellow, Male, Female.. ..most did not even choose to be a certain religion etc.. ..before we got here.

Some things are fundamental to us and others we have chosen, but NONE of them are what WE ARE.

But then what are we? Humans? yes.. but more importantly we are spirits..and we are psyches..which above all, desire to love and be loved...This is universal for every person and ironically it's this desire that fuels the quest for identification and acceptance in the first place.

So, the ultimate stress reduction is to surrender, and let go of all of this, and to begin to choose Love over Fear.


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